This article articulated many things for me that God has been stirring in my heart for the past few months. I have been guilty of some of the destructive mindsets he mentions; both toward myself and others. Props to the author, Brian Kammerzelt of www.critiquebycreating.com.
Read the Article.
It's worth it to read the whole thing, though it's long. Took me two sittings.
Credit for finding it first goes to this gal.